t all, but it totally can be! Consider the following example: during my last vacation to America, I had an S&M encounter with a dude I'll refer to as Klark. (It's not my fault. He requested the pseudonym.) At one point, Klark was experimenting with hurting me, and I had my eyes closed and was whimpering

But if you want to do it quickly and without shifting the mood, you can do it HOUSE_OVERSIGHT_018468 --- PAGE BREAK --- as I outline above in the Klark example. Or even quicker, as for example with the hand- squeeze system, where the participants agree ahead of time that you can squeeze another perso