done, as courts have said, when you're accusing somebody 24 (Pages 269 to 272) www.phippsreporting.com (888) 811-3408 HOUSE_OVERSIGHT_010806 owoU MON HUM PW dH eH 273 of outrageous, horrible, inexcusable misconduct, at least call the person and ask them if they can disprove it before you file a -- a statement.