obligatory arbitration requirements arc not favored and arc not to be found where, as here, they arc not clearly evinced by the contract. Sec e.g., De Vito v. Hempstead China Shop, 38 F.3d 651.654; Irving Trust Corporation v. Nationwide Leisure Corporation, (4141 711 F. Supp. 166. 168 (S.D.N.Y. 1989);