nt of New Canaan Board of Realtors By newcanaanite ;Grace Moss Oei Grace Moss Oei of Mint Hill, M. died April 7, 2016. Devoted wife of the late Rudy T. Oei. She is survived by her daughters J. Elizabeth Oei of New Canaan, Laura A. Farley (Christopher) of Mint Hill , NC, and John C. Oei of London, UK.