d in Florida saseloun his suit must be dismissed. _ “[TJhe law is well settled that a plaintiffis not entitled to both his silence and his lawsuit.” Boys & Girls Clubs of Marion County, Ine. v. J.A., 22 So.3d 855, 856 (Fla. 5th Dist. ct. App. 2009) (Griffin, J., concurring specially). Thus, “a person may not seek affirmative relief